Parshat Emor

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Parshat Emor

Holiness Under Test: How Do We Maintain Holiness in the Reality of Our Lives?

 
By Amir Shafat
 
Parashat Emor is divided into three parts that seemingly have no connection to each other. The first part, the laws of the priests, describes in detail the laws of the priests, impurity, holiness, and marriage laws. This section is only relevant to priests serving in the Temple. The second part describes the Hebrew calendar.
 
This section applies to all Israelites. The third part describes the judgment of one who curses God and the principles of Jewish law. In the first part, the descriptions of the priests' impurity and sanctity are detailed and full of requirements that are suitable for the days when the Temple existed. Popular worship took place on the three pilgrimage festivals, and the sanctity of the place was maintained daily. It is difficult to find the relevant context for 5786 (2025-2026) when the Temple is destroyed, worship has become prayer, and the gathering of all the people in one place has become many synagogues scattered throughout the world. However, the many commandments imposed on the priests and the demands made of them symbolize an important principle.
 
Holiness in Israel does not come from above, nor is it granted to Israel by God's grace. In a monarchy, for example, the official title of King Charles III is: Charles the Third, by the Grace of God, King of the United Kingdom. The king receives authority to lead from God.
 
In contrast, the Jewish people are holy to God, and this holiness is attained through the observance of mitzvot and a righteous life. This means that the Jewish people are the nation chosen to live a more moral life, and in this way they have become holy to God. The priests were chosen from among the people, and stricter laws apply to them; thus, they represent the people’s holiness before God—a holiness that rises from below. The meaning of all the laws and commandments is that we are the chosen people, not to claim special rights over the land or the nations of the world. On the contrary—we are obligated to observe the commandments in order to live a more moral life, and only in this way will we merit holiness: the people of Israel, the priests, and God. The second part describes the Hebrew calendar, the dates, and the customs of the holidays. Here, the festivals and holidays of Israel are summarized: Shabbat, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, Passover, the Counting of the Omer, and Shavuot. Three times it is written: 'These are the appointed times of the Lord, the holy convocations, which you shall proclaim.' Since the Torah was given to us without vowel points (vowel points were added only between the seventh and ninth centuries)—the verse can be read as "which you shall proclaim," the second-person plural present tense. The Gemara notes the difference between the holidays sanctified by God—which we observe as "which you shall proclaim"—and the holidays that the Jewish people make holy by performing the commandments at the proper time, which you shall proclaim. And in this section of the parashah as well, we see holiness as the performance of mitzvot incumbent upon the Jewish people to sanctify the holidays; that is, holiness is created through human action. To live a holy life, the Jewish people must also observe the mitzvot between person and person, which are expressed in Jewish law. In the third section of the parashah, one verse stands out in particular, more relevant than ever.
 
"One law shall be to you, as to the stranger and as to the native shall it be, for I am the Lord your God. (Leviticus 24:22 – my emphasis, A.Sh.) For comparison, I want to bring a law recently enacted in the State of Israel, the Death Penalty for Terrorists Law, 5786-2026. 3A. Death Penalty in Judea and Samaria: A resident of the area who intentionally causes the death of a person, and the act is an act of terror as defined in the Counter-Terrorism Law, 5776-2016 (in this section – a terrorist), shall be punished by death, and this punishment only. However, if the military court finds, for special reasons that shall be recorded, that special circumstances exist for which it is appropriate to impose a life sentence on the terrorist, it may impose such a sentence and this sentence only. In this subsection, "resident of the area" – a person registered in the population registry of the area or a person residing in the area even if not registered as aforesaid, excluding an Israeli citizen or a resident of Israel.
 
The comparison reveals a serious inconsistency with biblical law. In conclusion, we have learned from the portion that to live a better, more righteous, and holier life, we must observe the commandments, celebrate the festivals at their appointed times, and sanctify the Sabbath. It can also be said that holiness is not a given state; it is built through actions, through time, and through a system of laws. However, this raises a dilemma: how should we act when the values of holiness—morality, commandment, and justice—are not compatible with the reality of our lives? What is the right thing to do when laws contradict each other?
 
Shabbat Shalom and peace be upon you.
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Amir Shaft

Amir Shaft is the father of two teenagers, lives in western Ireland, is a professor of physiology, a cyclist, a Jewish believer, and a people person.

Parashat Acharei Mot–Kedoshim

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Parashat Acharei Mot–Kedoshim

"and the land will not vomit you out."

"and the land will not vomit you out"
(Inspired by Avi Sagi's article: Conversion, Exile, and Sovereignty - Reflections Following the Biblical Tradition)
In his commentary on the first verse of the Bible, "In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth," Rashi asks why the Torah began with this verse and not with the first commandment given to the Israelites: "This month shall be unto you" (Exodus 12:2).
And his answer: If the gentiles say to Israel, "You are robbers who conquered the lands of seven nations" (meaning the land of Canaan), answer them: The whole land belongs to the Holy One, blessed be He. He created it and gave it to whomever it pleased Him. By His will, He gave it to them, and by His will, He took it from them and gave it to us.
Is this process reversible (God forbid)? Meaning, taking Judea and Samaria from Israel and handing it over to others? If so, what could be the factors and conditions for that?
The Bible answers this in several places, including in our weekly Torah portion.
The reasons why God took the land of Canaan from the seven nations are mainly: the idolatry they suffered from, at its head the sacrificing of children (human sacrifice) to Moloch, incest, and their social-moral conduct.
And therefore the central command and warning is: "You shall not do as they do in the land of Egypt where you lived, nor shall you do as they do in the land of Canaan, to which I am bringing you, nor shall you follow their customs." (Leviticus 18:3) but rather: "You shall keep my statutes and my ordinances, by doing which a person shall live: I am the Lord." (Leviticus 18:5)
What is the required and appropriate conduct?
The detailed explanation of its central principles is found in Chapter 19 of the Book of Leviticus, a chapter that has become canonical in Jewish culture. At its head is the guiding principle: "You shall be holy, for I, the Lord your God, am holy," followed by a breakdown of behaviors that are appropriate for realizing this principle, primarily concerning interpersonal relationships, moral sensitivity and compassion, and great concern for the vulnerable in society (the blind, the deaf, the orphan, the widow, and the stranger).
A special dimension is known regarding the treatment of a ger—a ger in the Bible: an ethnic group not from Israel that lives among Israel. 36 times, the Sages counted references to the treatment of a ger in the Torah. Only to him is the demand "and you shall love him as yourself" (parallel to the commandment "and you shall love your neighbor as yourself") attributed: "And if a ger stays with you in your land, you shall not afflict him. He shall be to you as a native-born among you, the ger who stays with you, and you shall love him as yourself."
And the reason for this is: "For you were strangers in the land of Egypt, I am the Lord your God' (Leviticus 19:33-34).
The remembrance of the Exodus from Egypt and the obligation to remember the slavery and subjugation in Egypt is the foundation and source of inspiration for a series of commandments toward the stranger, orphan, and widow—the socially weak margins of society.
Why has the attitude toward the stranger become a central touchstone for proper moral conduct?
The biblical tradition directs the people of Israel to their land. The Land of Israel is the home of the people, but even within their home, they are called upon to constantly experience the feeling of being strangers in their own land. And all of this is for what reason? Out of concern for developing a master-servant attitude.
The historical memory of slavery and migrations in Egypt is the foundation for developing an awareness of the need for constant confrontation with the danger of power and dominion that lies in wait for anyone living in a land that they rule without restraint.
The people of Israel are not an indigenous people, masters of the land and its absolute owners, nor will they be made so.
The land is God's gift to Abraham and his descendants under certain conditions. Man is not sovereign, and therefore should not develop a consciousness of mastery, "and you shall not say, "My own strength and the might of my hand have produced all this wealth for me."
Therefore, God takes the trouble to warn the people of Israel and to inform them, that just as He brought them to the land, so He can also destroy them. The way to contend with the temptations of sovereignty is by developing a disposition of awareness of being strangers and of conditional existence in this place.
And we will conclude with the words of Samson Raphael Hirsch, adapted from the verses in Leviticus 18:24-28 in our portion:
"Since the selection of Abraham and his land, the Land of Israel does not tolerate the corruption of its inhabitants. The flourishing of this land depends on the moral flourishing of its inhabitants—those born within it, nourished by its fruits, and enriched by its treasures. In the completeness of man and his moral freedom will be found completeness for the land as well. The land forfeits its purpose if the society upon which it depends has corrupted its ways and forfeited its own purpose. Therefore, a society that is socially and morally corrupt has no future in this land... Just as the body expels foreign matter within it, so too will the land expel its inhabitants.
It is difficult to write these things without thinking about the chasm that yawns between the position of the Bible and the deeds performed night after night, and even in broad daylight, by the "hilltop terrorists" in Judea and Samaria. Those who claim to act in the name of Judaism and to fulfill the commandments of the Bible are distorting the legacy of us all.
These lines are written with considerable pain and great concern, just a few days after we celebrated 78 years of our renewed sovereignty and independence in our homeland.
Shabbat Shalom! 

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Yaakov Castel

Holds a Master's degree in Jewish History from the Hebrew University, a retired Lieutenant Colonel; served as Head of the Education Department in the IDF General Staff, and has been involved in and managed training, teaching, and education in various bodies over the years.

Weekly musical Kabbalat Shabbat

Kabbalat Shabbat is a weekly event.

Musical Kabbalat Shabbat at Beit Shalom Aleichem every Friday

Welcoming Shabbat together, with music, singing, Israeli prayer, and a community atmosphere!!
You are invited to take a breath before Shabbat, and join a Israeli, Tel Avivian communal prayer that blends the old with the new, the Jewish with the Israeli, and the personal with the communal. Suitable for all ages!!

With Rabbi Esteban Gottfried, Didi Dror, the acclaimed singer Atalia Levi, and musician Matthias Shlomo, and other musicians.

We meet every Friday at 6:30 PM at Beit Shalom Aleichem, Berkovich 2, Tel Aviv.
You are invited to bring a food or drink item for the Kiddush following Kabbalat Shabbat.

Admission is free with advance registration. Leave your details.

Parashat Tazria-Metzora

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Parashat Tazria-Metzora

Between proximity and distance

 
By Dr. Esti Doron
 

The parshiyot (Torah portions) of Tazria-Metzora deal with the laws of ritual impurity and purity, as well as various afflictions that befall a person: in their home, their garments, and their skin.

 

Already at the beginning of the portion, we encounter the laws of Niddah related to childbirth: the difference between the birth of a son and the birth of a daughter in terms of days of impurity and purification and the waiting period for marital relations. When a son is born, one counts seven days of impurity and another thirty-three. When a daughter is born, one counts fourteen days of impurity and another sixty-six before purification.

 

Precisely at the moment of creating new life, at the moment of deep physical intimacy, separation also appears. It is as if the Torah seeks to remind us that intimacy is not a given continuum, but a delicate movement of coming closer and moving away, of longing and renewal. In this context, I found it appropriate to include Rabbi Elhanan Nir's poem "After Birth," which deals with longing for a woman and for marital relations.

 

After childbirth/ Elhanan Nir

For months

And I don't know how to tell you

As is understood according to Halakha, etc.

But just so you know

It's already been months.

And all my bones shall say

But they don't know how, according to Halakha, to tell you

That we have a new baby, thank God.,

I am not saying that I

No

Waiting for you and so on.'

 

Subsequently, the affliction moves into the realm of plagues: spots on the walls of the house, blemishes on clothes, and finally, plagues on human skin. The plagues on the house and clothing are sometimes treated with external means: cleaning, removal, and even destruction, but when the plague appears on human skin, it already carries a deeper significance.

 

The Sages linked leprosy to evil speech; to the damage of relationships between people. One who banishes his fellow from the camp with his words finds himself banished from the camp. The isolation becomes "a measure for a measure": the person sits alone, outside the camp, and reflects. But this isolation is not just punishment. It is also a pause. A space where one can recognize that something has gone out of balance and begin to re-evaluate. 

 

The word "quarantine" itself evokes a heavy, almost suffocating feeling in me, and one can't help but remember the period of Corona, when we all experienced, each in our own way, this distance. I especially remember the Passover Seder night when we were forced to sit by ourselves (or hold the Seder on Zoom) and couldn't visit or host. I remember bringing my elderly mother holiday supplies and leaving them for her by the door, for fear I might infect her with Corona, as I used to go out and also work with other people in the office. I will not forget the moment I lit holiday candles and simply cried, knowing my mother was sitting alone in her home, not celebrating Seder, even though she could have because she had all the supplies, and going to bed early so as not to feel the absence of the holiday. Quarantine is a harsh punishment, not only physical but also psychological and existential.


And the question that arises before me in light of our parsha is not just why isolation is required – but what happens after it, how do we return? How do we come back to the community, to contact, to communality, after we have been “outside the camp”? And does the community truly know how to welcome back, or does it continue to see in the person the contagion he once had... I would like to offer another angle to look at isolation. Not just as a punishment, but as an opportunity to admit weakness, to admit that something has happened to me, that I am not precise, that I need a pause. To take a time out, to observe, to recalculate the route.

 

In days when it seems we are all a bit “leprous,” a bit wounded, a bit imperfect, carrying with us the traces of such a complex period – isolation also contains a quiet call to turn inward. And perhaps here, the beginning of the portion connects to its end: as in the laws of intimacy after childbirth, both there and here, the path back to closeness is not immediate. It requires time, a process, and sometimes even a ritual: immersion in water, a marked transition, a moment of recognition. True closeness, it seems, is not just being together, but knowing how to traverse the distance and return from it. Perhaps we can take a dual message from the Tazria-Metzora portions: we must learn to pause, to listen, to make room for what has been fractured, but no less importantly, to be a community that knows how to welcome people back with grace. A community that not only guards its boundaries but also knows how to heal. I hope we will be that community.

Shabbat Shalom!

 

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Dr. Esti Doron

Esti Doron is a Doctor of Education who specializes in teacher training, evaluation of educational projects, and fostering educational leadership. She is married, a mother of three, and a loving grandmother to two grandchildren.

Distinction between Memorial Day and Independence Day 2026

Havdalah
A ceremony of transition between Memorial Day and Independence Day

A time to mourn and a time to dance

Havdalah - a ceremony of transition between Memorial Day and Independence Day

A time to mourn and a time to dance
 
 
Difficult days are passing us by, and the moment of transition between the day of mourning and the day of joy is especially difficult. This is a uniquely Israeli trait, which found expression in the Havdalah – a time to weep and a time to heal. This year, the transition is even more difficult and the current context undermines many of the sentences that make sense throughout the holiday.
 

However, this moment calls for fulfillment, for words, and for togetherness.

About two decades ago, a small group of people who founded Israeli house of prayer in Tel Aviv It came together to try to provide a response to the ritual need that the juxtaposition of these days invites us to. The proposal received was to dwell precisely on this gap of time, between mourning and joy, and fill it with a ceremony that combines Jewish and Israeli materials and form. A ceremony of Havdalah. A Havdalah between Memorial Day and Independence Day.
The distinction between Memorial Day and Independence Day is built from ancient and new, traditional and contemporary creative materials. Through poetry, prayer excerpts, hymns, reflections, and Israeli songs, we manage to create a gradual emotional transition between the polar states of sorrow and joy, and to observe the human capacity to move between changing mental states using different layers of the Hebrew language. At the center of the ceremony is a free variation of the Havdalah blessing between Shabbat and weekdays, adapted to the unique transition between the sanctity of Memorial Day and the sanctity of Independence Day.

This year, more than ever, it is essential that we go through this moment together. Beit Tefilah Israeli invites the general public to a joint Havdalah with Israeli music, prayer songs, and soul healing.

 
The Havdalah ceremony will take place on Wednesday, April 21st. We will meet at 6:00 PM. Arriving early is recommended.
Event location: Beit Shalom Aleichem – Berkovich 2, Tel Aviv
 
Admission is free, subject to availability. Register here!
 

Here you can download the Havdalah order for 5786.

Our Memory – A Sharing Circle on Memorial Day Evening

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering and testimonies

Our Memory - A Sharing Circle on Memorial Day Evening

Monday 4.26.20 at 8:00 PM at "Bipnuchu" - Itamar Ben Avi 9 Tel Aviv

Our Memory: Community Memory Spaces You are invited to "Our Memory." A community gathering for sharing on Memorial Day evening, which we will hold on Monday, April 26th, at "Befanechu" - 9 Itamar Ben Avi Street, at 8:00 PM. "Our Memory" initiates a request to create 78 parallel events across Israel, taking place after the state ceremonies on Memorial Day eve for fallen soldiers of Israel's wars. The initiative seeks to create community, intimate, and small spaces that allow participants to share stories, memories, and thoughts in a close conversation. The exact mix and content of each meeting are flexible and determined according to the spirit of the event's leaders – this is a basic characteristic that allows each community to imbue it with the appropriate content. At the heart of the meetings is the desire to create personal and open dialogue, which builds collective memory from individual memory. From the understanding that sharing personal memory lays the foundation for a shared future. The encounter between different stories surrounding pain and the Israeli narrative allows for deep, unhindered connection, strengthening our social fabric.

House of Study: Rituals, This Time - A Divorce Ceremony

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering and testimonies

Study Hall for Ceremonies: 15.4 - Divorce Ceremony

15.4.26 19:00-21:00 On the divorce ceremony with Rabbi Shlomo Zacharov

"Rabbi Akiva taught: If a man and a woman merit it, the Divine Presence rests between them. If they do not merit it, fire consumes them. (Babylonian Talmud, Sotah 17a) How can Rabbi Akiva's words be reconciled with a world where one in three couples separates or divorces? And how can one "separate forces" according to Judaism? In this session, we will meet with Rabbi Shlomo Zacharoff, who serves, among other roles, as the Chairman of the Halachic Committee of the "Knesset Harabanim" of the Masorti Movement in Israel and manages its Rabbinical Court for Divorce. Together with Rabbi Shlomo, we will delve into the Jewish divorce ceremony and learn about its origins, the course of the ceremony, the content of the Get (divorce document), how it is written, what it obligates and what it permits, and much more. A session of learning, conversation, and sharing. Wednesday | April 26, 2020 | 7:00 PM–9:00 PM "Befanuchu" Space 9 Itamar Ben-Avi Street, Tel Aviv.

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering and testimonies

Holocaust Remembrance Day Gathering - T.A.A.C. Committees

Holocaust Remembrance Gathering - "The Responsibility to Remember and Remember Responsibly" This year too, we will mark the "Gathering" ceremony. We will meet on Monday, April 13, 2026, at 8:00 PM for an hour in which we will together take responsibility for the memory of the Holocaust. We will say Kaddish, hear testimony, and remember our family members who perished and the communities that were and no longer are. This year we will hear Charlie's testimony: At the office of an Israeli synagogue: 9 Itamar Ben Avi Street, Tel Aviv. Admission is free. Please register in advance.

Parashat Shemini

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Parashat Shemini

Between Responsibility and Guilt – Leadership in Times of Crisis

 
By Ronen Koehler
 

Parashat Shemini opens at a moment of climax: the eighth day of the inauguration of the Mishkan. After seven days of preparation, fire appears from heaven and validates human work. This is a moment of connection between heaven and earth, between human initiative and divine approval. But precisely within this moment of climax, a great rupture occurs: Nadav and Avihu "take initiative" and offer 'strange fire, which He had not commanded them," and they die by fire that came forth from the Lord. The sharp transition from spiritual elation to disaster shakes the reader, but it also sharpens a fundamental principle: where there is holiness, there are also boundaries; and a leader bears heavy responsibility, not only for the role and its limits, but for the entire public, because they represent the entire public.

At the beginning of the parsha, we encounter Aaron at a pivotal moment: his entry into the role of High Priest. However, instead of enthusiasm or confidence, the Torah hints at hesitation: "Draw near to the altar" - Moses has to call him, to urge him on. The Sages describe Aaron as one who was "ashamed and afraid to approach." Why? This can be understood on several levels:

Awe: The direct encounter with the Divine Presence evokes a natural trembling; the memory of the sin of the Golden Calf – Aaron carries within him a deep sense of guilt and asks himself if he is worthy of being the one to atone for the people; and also the psychological transition from being "number 2," a partner and advisor to Moses (but without public responsibility), to the status of the official leader, the "High Priest.".

And there is also another dimension here: true leadership begins with recognizing the depth of responsibility. Aaron understands that the role is not just an honor but a heavy mission towards the people. He is the one who must stand between the people and God, atone, represent, and bear. Here Moses intervenes and tells him: "This is why you were chosen!" Not because you are perfect, but because you are willing to bear responsibility.

And opposite Aharon, the balanced and calculated (some would say hesitant), stand his sons Nadav and Avihu – the galloping horses. The second generation that takes on leadership sometimes without understanding its true cost. They are the sons of a High Priest, full of passion for serving God. But it is precisely this passion that leads them to transgression: 'strange fire which He had not commanded them." Our Sages offer various explanations: drinking wine, pride, independent ruling. But the common denominator is clear: action without sufficient responsibility to the framework and the community. They acted out of a desire to draw closer, perhaps even to intensify the spiritual experience. But they did not ask the central question a leader must ask: What is the meaning of my action for the system? For the people? What is the purpose of our leadership? They saw themselves at the center, not the role.

When a leader conflates their social role with their personal considerations, they damage public trust, the stability of the system, and trust in leadership itself. We see in the State of Israel the terrible price we pay when leaders misunderstand their responsibility to the whole and mix their personal interests with it. This, of course, happens in the Israeli government, but unfortunately, it also happens a lot in the IDF and other places based on leadership. Commanders and managers absolve themselves of responsibility by claiming "they are not to blame." Blame requires proof. Responsibility is inherent in the definition of leadership. When we demand a state commission of inquiry, we are demanding that our leaders allow other people to examine their performance and responsibility in order to learn and fix things, not necessarily to punish.

But, at the moment of crisis, Moses reveals himself as a complete leader.

He not only interprets the event, nor only manages it. He understands he is responsible for the entire nation: for the understanding of the event, for preserving trust in the system, for the continued proper functioning of the Tabernacle, and for maintaining Aaron's position as leader. Moses does not look for culprits; he does not ask "Who is to blame," but rather asks "What is needed now to hold the public together.".

And this is a critical point:

True leadership is not just about inner truth, but also about public influence. A leader must ask: Do my actions strengthen the public or undermine it? Do they create stability or chaos?

In summary, three main challenges arise from the case:

  1. Aaron's Hesitation to Lead: Am I worthy? Am I capable of bearing the responsibility towards the public?
  2. The temptation for Aaron's descendants to innovate without limits: The desire to influence, to innovate, but without considering the broader consequences.
  3. Moshe's ability to bear systemic responsibility for holding people, the system, and the public accountable, especially in times of crisis.

Leaders always operate under pressure, criticism, and a constant desire to show initiative. But the affair reminds us of a simple, uncomfortable truth:

Leadership is not a privilege – it is a responsibility to the public.

This responsibility requires:

Consider every action not only by intention but also by expected results.

To understand that an initiative that is not coordinated or controlled can damage public trust.

To know how to distinguish between guilt and responsibility: not to get stuck searching for culprits, but to move forward to conscious choice and correction.

And remember that every decision is examined not only at the moment but also by its impact on the entire social fabric.

Responsibility is a choice to act in a way that serves the greater good, even at personal cost.

True initiative is not just the courage to act—but the wisdom to understand when and how to act.

Today's leadership requires balancing humility with initiative, boundaries with freedom, and most importantly, remembering:

The leader does not act for himself. He carries an entire public on his shoulders.

Leadership is both a resource and a journey.

Shabbat Shalom!

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Ronen Koehler

Social activist, Chairman of the Israeli Prayer House, Lt. Col. (Res.), Organizational Consultant, and father of 3 from Tel Aviv

Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach

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Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach

On the connection between the Song of Songs and Passover

 
From Esteban Gottfried
 

On Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach, it is customary to read the Song of Songs. The connection is less obvious than the Book of Esther on Purim, and the custom is relatively recent – (it first appeared in the Vitry Machzor (Rabbeinu Simcha, a student of Rashi) – mid-12th century) – nevertheless, let us focus on this connection.

 

Among all the books of the Bible, Song of Songs is perhaps the most surprising. A book in which it is not at all clear if there is a single word about God. A book over which the Sages argued whether it sanctifies the hands – meaning, whether it is holy enough to be included in the Holy Scriptures. And Rabbi Akiva, who ruled as law that it is, not only said yes, but added a statement that admits no ambiguity:

"All Scripture is holy, but the Song of Songs is the holiest of the holy." (Mishnah Yadayim 3:5)

 

Not just holy – but holy of holies. The highest level. And not only that, but they used to recite it specifically on Passover, on the Seder night, on the festival of redemption. So why the Song of Songs on Passover?

 

The most common reason is simple: "Because most of its verses allude to the Exodus from Egypt." Thus writes the "Haggadah Beit Levi." Rashi and Midrash Rabbah open almost every verse in the song and find in it a hint to the journey in the desert, to the faith of Israel, to the giving of the Torah.

 

And there is, of course, another, deeper reason, concerning the relationship itself between God and the people of Israel. The Sages viewed the three pilgrimage festivals as three stages of marriage: Passover - the time of "engagement" and "betrothal," when the enslaved people suddenly went out into the desert "after" their beloved. Shavuot - the giving of the Torah, the official "betrothal": "We accepted upon ourselves to live according to one ketubah." Sukkot - the chuppah, the entry into shared life under one canopy.

 

And if so – the Song of Songs, the love song between David and his wife, is also the love song between the Holy One, blessed be He, and the Congregation of Israel. And Passover is the moment when this love began. What could be more fitting than reading this love song at a moment of beginnings? "Remember your youthful love, your marital love, your following me in the wilderness, in a land not sown..." (Jeremiah 2:2)

 

But beyond the commonly accepted metaphorical reading, I want to dwell on one verse from the book, which serves as an additional key:

"The voice of my beloved! Look, he comes, leaping over the mountains, bounding over the hills."
(Song of Songs 2:8)

 

The Midrash interprets this verse as a hint to the redemption: The redeemer does not arrive slowly, does not climb a ladder step by step. He skips. He leaps. He arrives all at once. And Rashi, on a closer verse, explains: "He runs and comes to redeem us, as if overcoming the high mountains so they will not hinder him."

 

And I believe there is a major innovation here. We are accustomed to thinking of change as a process. Of redemption as a gradual progression. Of correction as something built slowly, patiently, step by step. And that is true at times. But the Song of Songs teaches us that there is another kind of change: a change that leaps. That skips. That comes from a place we did not expect, and at a speed we did not believe possible. The Exodus itself is a living illustration of this. Two hundred and ten years of slavery. Generation after generation. And then—"On this very day they went out." Rashi writes on this verse: "The Scripture did not delay even for the blink of an eye." When the moment comes—it comes in an instant.

 

We are celebrating this Passover during a heavy year. War follows war, with casualties, wounded, worn-out, worried, and tired people. Corrupt leadership that divides the people, legislates laws to empower itself, and this week a law that truly discriminates between blood and blood, turning a blind eye to lawbreakers, and the list goes on. The pain is not over. And there are moments when it's hard to believe that things can be different, that the situation can change, that the other side of this pain is near.

 

And therefore, specifically Song of Songs, and specifically this verse, are a gift. Because the verse doesn't say, "After a long and grueling process, after you complete all the stages, your beloved will arrive." It says, "The voice of my beloved! Behold, he comes." Behold. He. Comes. Present tense, a sense of closeness, a sense of suddenness. The mountains that are leaped over – they don't disappear. They are still there. The hills don't crumble. The difficulty doesn't deny itself. But leaping over them is possible. The change doesn't have to go through every mountain and every hill – it can surmount them. Times change. Often surprisingly. By skipping stages, by "leaping over the hills." Of all the blessings I received for the holiday, the one that most struck me was a very short blessing from our friend Steve Stolman from New York, who will be celebrating his 95th birthday in a few weeks, and has already been through many things in life. 

 

Stay Safe. Stay Strong. Have Faith. Times Will Change. You are not alone. Have a Good Passover

 

Times will change. This does not mean not to advance the change and sit with folded hands, but rather to believe that the pendulum of life, and also of the lives of nations, "leaps over the mountains and climbs the hills.".

 

And I wanted to share another simple thought: "Shir HaShirim" – which can also be read as "a song to songs," a song that sanctifies poetry itself. Music is one of the most ancient tools people have to cultivate hope within themselves. Not through argument, not through sight, not through explanation – but through melody. Rabbi Nachman of Breslov said there is no remedy for sadness like joy, and no tool for joy like a melody. And throughout our history – in exile, in bondage, in hardship – we sang. We sang because the melody reaches places words cannot.

 

And in this sense,.

 

The Song of Songs opens with a question: "Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth." A direct, personal, touching plea. The Knesset of Israel turns to her beloved and says: Come. Here I am. I am here.

 

This Passover, we too can stand with this plea. Not out of perfection, not out of confidence that everything is already okay – but out of the belief that the beloved is leaping over the mountains toward us, that change can come suddenly, and that the melody we will sing tonight invites him to come. "The voice of my beloved, behold, here he comes."

 

Shabbat Shalom and happy holidays.

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Esteban Gottfried

Rabbi and CEO of Beit Tefillah Israeli, and one of its founders. Lives in Tel Aviv, married to Ruthi and father to Maya and Tobi.