Tisha B'Av – Past, Present, Future

Tisha B'Av - Past, Present, Future

On destruction and on hope

The evening

At the museum we

 
Tisha B'Av is a traditional and national day of remembrance and mourning. This year, we come together to mark the date. Hadad Institute in Tel Aviv, the Egalitarian Minyan, the Koret Center, and Beit Tefilah Yisraeli.
On the night of Tisha B'Av, we will gather together to reflect and learn about fracture and destruction – alongside hope and healing. 
In the evening, we will journey through the past, present, and future. We will reflect on the memory of the past, through reading the Book of Lamentations and a visit to Jewish history throughout the museum, and pause on the present, in learning circles about mourning and pain led by facilitators from the egalitarian minyan, the Hadar Institute, and the Ko'ra Center. 
This evening, we will conclude with a look into the future, with a conversation about hope and healing with Liat Azili, an educator, who will speak with Rabbi Dr. Rani Jaeger from Beit Tefilah Yisraeli.
 
Registration fee of 30 shekels
 
Please register at the link provided 👇

Weeks Correction 5786 – "Your Torah is my delight"

Your Torah is my delight - Tikkun Shavuot on the theme of humor

Correction of Shavuot 2026 at an Israeli prayer house

Your Torah is my delight.

A Shavuot Correction, 5786: On Jewish and Israeli Humor as a Stance on Life

 

Thursday, May 21st, 2026 from 8:30 PM until late

Music and prayer are two universal languages that express the depths of the soul and spirit. Both connect us to each other, to nature, and to something greater than ourselves. What is it about music that enables a meaningful prayer experience? What is the place of sacred and profane in synagogue music? And what is the role of the piyyutim?

On the night of Shavuot, when we gather to study, question, renew, and receive the Torah, this year we have chosen to dedicate the Tikkun Leil (night vigil) to humor. Not as an escape from seriousness, but as one of the deepest ways to encounter it. In Jewish tradition, in Israeli humor, in satire, in buffoonery, in cinema, and on stage, humor is much more than entertainment: it is a language of wisdom, a tool for critique and correction, a way to cope with pain and difficulty, and sometimes even a spiritual stance of humility, freedom, and hope. On this Shavuot eve, we will seek to learn the power of laughter – the laughter that subverts conventions, that brings hearts closer, that allows difficult truths to be spoken gently, and that reminds us that even in the midst of brokenness, embarrassment, and uncertainty, humans are capable of continuing to play, create, question – and live.

Participants:

Prof. Aryeh Sober | Prof. Yishai Rosen-Tzvi  | Eran Ben Zeev | Galit Reichman | Amir Sperling | The Policewoman Az-Olay | Avi Greinik | | Maayan Weinstein | Esteban Gottfried | Rani Yeager | Rivi Dror | Atalia Lavie and more

Lecturers:

when?

Thursday, May 21st, 2026 from 8:30 PM until late

where?

Beit Shalom Aleichem, Berkovich 2, Tel Aviv

Admission is free with advance registration.

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Your Torah is my delight - on Jewish and Israeli humor as a life stance

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Thursday, May 21, 2026, the eve of Shavuot

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Weekly musical Kabbalat Shabbat

Kabbalat Shabbat is a weekly event.

Musical Kabbalat Shabbat at Beit Shalom Aleichem every Friday

Welcoming Shabbat together, with music, singing, Israeli prayer, and a community atmosphere!!
You are invited to take a breath before Shabbat, and join a Israeli, Tel Avivian communal prayer that blends the old with the new, the Jewish with the Israeli, and the personal with the communal. Suitable for all ages!!

With Rabbi Esteban Gottfried, Didi Dror, the acclaimed singer Atalia Levi, and musician Matthias Shlomo, and other musicians.

We meet every Friday at 6:30 PM at Beit Shalom Aleichem, Berkovich 2, Tel Aviv.
You are invited to bring a food or drink item for the Kiddush following Kabbalat Shabbat.

Admission is free with advance registration. Leave your details.

Distinction between Memorial Day and Independence Day 2026

Havdalah
A ceremony of transition between Memorial Day and Independence Day

A time to mourn and a time to dance

Havdalah - a ceremony of transition between Memorial Day and Independence Day

A time to mourn and a time to dance
 
 
Difficult days are passing us by, and the moment of transition between the day of mourning and the day of joy is especially difficult. This is a uniquely Israeli trait, which found expression in the Havdalah – a time to weep and a time to heal. This year, the transition is even more difficult and the current context undermines many of the sentences that make sense throughout the holiday.
 

However, this moment calls for fulfillment, for words, and for togetherness.

About two decades ago, a small group of people who founded Israeli house of prayer in Tel Aviv It came together to try to provide a response to the ritual need that the juxtaposition of these days invites us to. The proposal received was to dwell precisely on this gap of time, between mourning and joy, and fill it with a ceremony that combines Jewish and Israeli materials and form. A ceremony of Havdalah. A Havdalah between Memorial Day and Independence Day.
The distinction between Memorial Day and Independence Day is built from ancient and new, traditional and contemporary creative materials. Through poetry, prayer excerpts, hymns, reflections, and Israeli songs, we manage to create a gradual emotional transition between the polar states of sorrow and joy, and to observe the human capacity to move between changing mental states using different layers of the Hebrew language. At the center of the ceremony is a free variation of the Havdalah blessing between Shabbat and weekdays, adapted to the unique transition between the sanctity of Memorial Day and the sanctity of Independence Day.

This year, more than ever, it is essential that we go through this moment together. Beit Tefilah Israeli invites the general public to a joint Havdalah with Israeli music, prayer songs, and soul healing.

 
The Havdalah ceremony will take place on Wednesday, April 21st. We will meet at 6:00 PM. Arriving early is recommended.
Event location: Beit Shalom Aleichem – Berkovich 2, Tel Aviv
 
Admission is free, subject to availability. Register here!
 

Here you can download the Havdalah order for 5786.

Our Memory – A Sharing Circle on Memorial Day Evening

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering and testimonies

Our Memory - A Sharing Circle on Memorial Day Evening

Monday 4.26.20 at 8:00 PM at "Bipnuchu" - Itamar Ben Avi 9 Tel Aviv

Our Memory: Community Memory Spaces You are invited to "Our Memory." A community gathering for sharing on Memorial Day evening, which we will hold on Monday, April 26th, at "Befanechu" - 9 Itamar Ben Avi Street, at 8:00 PM. "Our Memory" initiates a request to create 78 parallel events across Israel, taking place after the state ceremonies on Memorial Day eve for fallen soldiers of Israel's wars. The initiative seeks to create community, intimate, and small spaces that allow participants to share stories, memories, and thoughts in a close conversation. The exact mix and content of each meeting are flexible and determined according to the spirit of the event's leaders – this is a basic characteristic that allows each community to imbue it with the appropriate content. At the heart of the meetings is the desire to create personal and open dialogue, which builds collective memory from individual memory. From the understanding that sharing personal memory lays the foundation for a shared future. The encounter between different stories surrounding pain and the Israeli narrative allows for deep, unhindered connection, strengthening our social fabric.

House of Study: Rituals, This Time - A Divorce Ceremony

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering and testimonies

Study Hall for Ceremonies: 15.4 - Divorce Ceremony

15.4.26 19:00-21:00 On the divorce ceremony with Rabbi Shlomo Zacharov

"Rabbi Akiva taught: If a man and a woman merit it, the Divine Presence rests between them. If they do not merit it, fire consumes them. (Babylonian Talmud, Sotah 17a) How can Rabbi Akiva's words be reconciled with a world where one in three couples separates or divorces? And how can one "separate forces" according to Judaism? In this session, we will meet with Rabbi Shlomo Zacharoff, who serves, among other roles, as the Chairman of the Halachic Committee of the "Knesset Harabanim" of the Masorti Movement in Israel and manages its Rabbinical Court for Divorce. Together with Rabbi Shlomo, we will delve into the Jewish divorce ceremony and learn about its origins, the course of the ceremony, the content of the Get (divorce document), how it is written, what it obligates and what it permits, and much more. A session of learning, conversation, and sharing. Wednesday | April 26, 2020 | 7:00 PM–9:00 PM "Befanuchu" Space 9 Itamar Ben-Avi Street, Tel Aviv.

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering

Holocaust Remembrance Day gathering and testimonies

Holocaust Remembrance Day Gathering - T.A.A.C. Committees

Holocaust Remembrance Gathering - "The Responsibility to Remember and Remember Responsibly" This year too, we will mark the "Gathering" ceremony. We will meet on Monday, April 13, 2026, at 8:00 PM for an hour in which we will together take responsibility for the memory of the Holocaust. We will say Kaddish, hear testimony, and remember our family members who perished and the communities that were and no longer are. This year we will hear Charlie's testimony: At the office of an Israeli synagogue: 9 Itamar Ben Avi Street, Tel Aviv. Admission is free. Please register in advance.

Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach

Words for Shabbat - A community blog for this week's parashah

Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach

On the connection between the Song of Songs and Passover

 
From Esteban Gottfried
 

On Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach, it is customary to read the Song of Songs. The connection is less obvious than the Book of Esther on Purim, and the custom is relatively recent – (it first appeared in the Vitry Machzor (Rabbeinu Simcha, a student of Rashi) – mid-12th century) – nevertheless, let us focus on this connection.

 

Among all the books of the Bible, Song of Songs is perhaps the most surprising. A book in which it is not at all clear if there is a single word about God. A book over which the Sages argued whether it sanctifies the hands – meaning, whether it is holy enough to be included in the Holy Scriptures. And Rabbi Akiva, who ruled as law that it is, not only said yes, but added a statement that admits no ambiguity:

"All Scripture is holy, but the Song of Songs is the holiest of the holy." (Mishnah Yadayim 3:5)

 

Not just holy – but holy of holies. The highest level. And not only that, but they used to recite it specifically on Passover, on the Seder night, on the festival of redemption. So why the Song of Songs on Passover?

 

The most common reason is simple: "Because most of its verses allude to the Exodus from Egypt." Thus writes the "Haggadah Beit Levi." Rashi and Midrash Rabbah open almost every verse in the song and find in it a hint to the journey in the desert, to the faith of Israel, to the giving of the Torah.

 

And there is, of course, another, deeper reason, concerning the relationship itself between God and the people of Israel. The Sages viewed the three pilgrimage festivals as three stages of marriage: Passover - the time of "engagement" and "betrothal," when the enslaved people suddenly went out into the desert "after" their beloved. Shavuot - the giving of the Torah, the official "betrothal": "We accepted upon ourselves to live according to one ketubah." Sukkot - the chuppah, the entry into shared life under one canopy.

 

And if so – the Song of Songs, the love song between David and his wife, is also the love song between the Holy One, blessed be He, and the Congregation of Israel. And Passover is the moment when this love began. What could be more fitting than reading this love song at a moment of beginnings? "Remember your youthful love, your marital love, your following me in the wilderness, in a land not sown..." (Jeremiah 2:2)

 

But beyond the commonly accepted metaphorical reading, I want to dwell on one verse from the book, which serves as an additional key:

"The voice of my beloved! Look, he comes, leaping over the mountains, bounding over the hills."
(Song of Songs 2:8)

 

The Midrash interprets this verse as a hint to the redemption: The redeemer does not arrive slowly, does not climb a ladder step by step. He skips. He leaps. He arrives all at once. And Rashi, on a closer verse, explains: "He runs and comes to redeem us, as if overcoming the high mountains so they will not hinder him."

 

And I believe there is a major innovation here. We are accustomed to thinking of change as a process. Of redemption as a gradual progression. Of correction as something built slowly, patiently, step by step. And that is true at times. But the Song of Songs teaches us that there is another kind of change: a change that leaps. That skips. That comes from a place we did not expect, and at a speed we did not believe possible. The Exodus itself is a living illustration of this. Two hundred and ten years of slavery. Generation after generation. And then—"On this very day they went out." Rashi writes on this verse: "The Scripture did not delay even for the blink of an eye." When the moment comes—it comes in an instant.

 

We are celebrating this Passover during a heavy year. War follows war, with casualties, wounded, worn-out, worried, and tired people. Corrupt leadership that divides the people, legislates laws to empower itself, and this week a law that truly discriminates between blood and blood, turning a blind eye to lawbreakers, and the list goes on. The pain is not over. And there are moments when it's hard to believe that things can be different, that the situation can change, that the other side of this pain is near.

 

And therefore, specifically Song of Songs, and specifically this verse, are a gift. Because the verse doesn't say, "After a long and grueling process, after you complete all the stages, your beloved will arrive." It says, "The voice of my beloved! Behold, he comes." Behold. He. Comes. Present tense, a sense of closeness, a sense of suddenness. The mountains that are leaped over – they don't disappear. They are still there. The hills don't crumble. The difficulty doesn't deny itself. But leaping over them is possible. The change doesn't have to go through every mountain and every hill – it can surmount them. Times change. Often surprisingly. By skipping stages, by "leaping over the hills." Of all the blessings I received for the holiday, the one that most struck me was a very short blessing from our friend Steve Stolman from New York, who will be celebrating his 95th birthday in a few weeks, and has already been through many things in life. 

 

Stay Safe. Stay Strong. Have Faith. Times Will Change. You are not alone. Have a Good Passover

 

Times will change. This does not mean not to advance the change and sit with folded hands, but rather to believe that the pendulum of life, and also of the lives of nations, "leaps over the mountains and climbs the hills.".

 

And I wanted to share another simple thought: "Shir HaShirim" – which can also be read as "a song to songs," a song that sanctifies poetry itself. Music is one of the most ancient tools people have to cultivate hope within themselves. Not through argument, not through sight, not through explanation – but through melody. Rabbi Nachman of Breslov said there is no remedy for sadness like joy, and no tool for joy like a melody. And throughout our history – in exile, in bondage, in hardship – we sang. We sang because the melody reaches places words cannot.

 

And in this sense,.

 

The Song of Songs opens with a question: "Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth." A direct, personal, touching plea. The Knesset of Israel turns to her beloved and says: Come. Here I am. I am here.

 

This Passover, we too can stand with this plea. Not out of perfection, not out of confidence that everything is already okay – but out of the belief that the beloved is leaping over the mountains toward us, that change can come suddenly, and that the melody we will sing tonight invites him to come. "The voice of my beloved, behold, here he comes."

 

Shabbat Shalom and happy holidays.

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Esteban Gottfried

Rabbi and CEO of Beit Tefillah Israeli, and one of its founders. Lives in Tel Aviv, married to Ruthi and father to Maya and Tobi.

Purim 2026 at the Israeli House of Prayer

Purim 2026 at the Israeli House of Prayer

Musical Megillah reading and many more surprises!

Purim in an Israeli house of prayer
Monday, March 2, 2026, 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m.
Why can't Purim come twice a week?
This year it's coming – and in a big way!
 Happy Purim at the Israeli House of Prayer 
You are invited – young and old alike – to a particularly joyful and entertaining evening.
Let's start with a workshop on making noisemakers and packing gift baskets.,
We will continue reading the Book of Esther in verse accompanied by live music, and conclude with refreshments and a communal toast.

Miracles and salvation, joy and jubilation, the hidden is revealed and the lowly is exalted—and everything turns out for the best!

We are collecting 50 NIS from anyone who wants to participate in sending food parcels from the House of Prayer to needy families in Tel Aviv. 
Please click on the link and send your donation.
 On Monday, March 2, 26
 6:00 p.m. – Gathering, packing food parcels, workshops, mingling, and good vibes!
7:00 p.m. – Musical Megillah reading with the Beit Tila Israeli ensemble
 
 At home, peace be upon you, Bar-Kovitz 2, Tel Aviv
Come celebrate with us! 
 
 
 

 
Where: Beit Shalom Aleichem, 2 Bar-Kovitz Street, Tel Aviv.

Delivery of food parcels to the needy in Tel Aviv

This year, we are collecting 50 NIS from each participant who wishes to do so, in order to purchase food parcels for needy families in Tel Aviv. To purchase a food parcel, click on the link.

Musical Tu Bishvat celebration and community Shabbat reception

Musical Tu Bishvat celebration and community Shabbat reception

Shabbat Tu Bishvat at the Israeli House of Prayer

 

 Tu Bishvat at the Israeli House of Prayer🌿

Friday, February 6, 2026, at 5:30 p.m.
 
Tu Bishvat, the New Year for Trees, invites us to pause for a moment.,  Observe what is growing beneath the surface,  And celebrate the process—even if you can't see the fruits yet.
In a time that requires patience and forbearance,  Tu Bishvat encourages us to pause, marvel, and pay attention to what is already beginning to move..
 
Let's meet on Friday, February 6, 2026, at 5:30 p.m.,
 
For a combined Shabbat and Tu Bishvat celebration with wine, challah, and a variety of fruits.
We will welcome the Sabbath.,  We will sing songs about nature and growth.,
 
Let us read and recount the praises of the fruits and the earth.,
 
Let us pray for potential and fulfillment.
 
And we will bless the good land.
 
When: Friday, February 6, 2026 | 5:30 p.m.

 
Where: Beit Shalom Aleichem, 2 Bar-Kovitz Street, Tel Aviv.